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September 30th, 2000

Give a Baby Away, No Questions Asked

A new law in California offers a new twist to the eternal pro-choice v. pro-life debate: give birth to the baby, and then give it away. No questions, no inquiries, nothing. There’s even a two-week escape hatch, should the mother change her mind.

Thoughts? -pm

Posted in Miscellaneous

tammy September 7, 2006, 2:12 pm

Interested in adopting Hispanic/Latino. We have older children (teenagers) and would like to help out someone who needs it. Open adoption if preferred.

Ryan September 7, 2006, 2:33 pm

I love the Ping, but if you’re looking for kids here, there’s something way, way wrong.

Meagon January 19, 2007, 8:52 am

I dont know if I should be posting this, for the simple fact that I haven’t made up my mind yet, but I am pregnant and i’M NOT READY FOR CHILDREN YET. I dont believe in abortion, so this was the next best thing. I’m only a month, Im balck & white, the father is black, If there is anything a potential family would like to know, just email me.

Ryan January 19, 2007, 2:34 pm

Um, probably not the best place to be posting. Try an adoption agency.

sarah September 6, 2007, 5:58 pm

I don’t even know what the ‘Ping’ is. I entered something into a search engine and this came up. My husband and I have also tried to have a baby for over 5 years. I find it so very sad that even in this little post, there are so many waiting parents who are caught in the difficulty of adopting a child. The reason so many have posted a response is likely because this it is incredibly painful to know that you are not able to have a biological child, and because of this, you are expected to pay tens of thousands of dollars, have your entire life examined by many professionals, be made to jump through hoops (ie, when you are able to get pregnant, do you have to have fire escape routes posted in every room of your home, or your financial records examined by a “team”, or 5 letters of recommendation, etc, etc???) just for the chance to MAYBE adopt a child. And to top it off, because of all of the red tape, it’s impossible to adopt a newborn. The adoption can’t take place in most states for at least 6 months after birth. Because of this, most awaiting parents have great fear that even if an infant is placed in their home, there is a chance they will have it taken away.
People become empassioned about laws like the one originally cited because you have no idea how much people like me dream of being able to take an “unwanted” child home forever where it would be cherished.I would love to talk with someone who was considering adoption. This says it won’t post my email, but here it is anyway: (sarahbean1_2000@yahoo)

Jennifer Carter November 29, 2007, 11:59 am

i am 32 years old my husband is 44 i have no children he has 2 grown children but we want a baby of our own .We own a 3 bedroom home in Kc ,MO which is full of love but no patter of little feet.i would do anything in the world to have a sweet little angel to share our love with so if you want your baby to have the best of the best contact us at [address deleted]@yahoo.com much love and God Bless the Carter’s

Dave Walls November 30, 2007, 7:42 am

I’m looking to make babies. You can have the babies. I’m just interested in the process.

Sexy ladies need only apply. Inquire within.

MELISSA February 24, 2008, 12:03 am

MY HUSBAND DOESN’T HAVE ANY CHILDREN OF HIS OWN AND HE IS 50 YEARS OLD. I HAVE TWO AGES 14 AND 12, I ALSO HAD ONE PASS AWAY DUE TO BEING PREMATURE. WE WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A CHILD AGE BIRTH TO 10 TO GIVE A HAPPY HOME TO AND KEEP SAFE. IF THERE IS ANY ONE OUT THERE WHO CAN HELP US WITH THIS PRAYER PLEASE DROP US A LINE.

kendall chandler November 23, 2008, 2:16 am

hi there,

my name is kendall chandler I am still younger but cannot have a baby due to infertility! This breaks my heart! IF ANYONE hears of someone not wanting their baby I would appreciate it if someone would contact me! Kendall Chandler and my e-mail is kchick6030@aol.com

Alissa December 6, 2008, 2:15 am

ARE PEOPLE REALLY GIVING UP THEIR BABIES?
EMAIL ME IF YOU ARE mcchapa89@yahoo.com

alissa

Jer December 16, 2008, 10:10 pm

Hi. I can not believe this website even exists, but I figured I’d give it a shot. Recently a baby was found dead in our woods and it just broke my heart. I always say, ” I would take that baby and love it so much!”. I am thankful for the new laws which protect mothers, and hopefully deter people for taking drastic measures such as what recently happened.

My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for years. If you know someone who is pregnant and interested in giving up their baby for adoption, please have her email me. We are looking to do this legally only. Thank you.

Mistie January 13, 2009, 8:07 pm

I think it is an absolute shame that people think it is so absurd to give a baby up but wouldnt think twice if the mother said she aborted it. Why is everything so backwards in this country?? I commend any girl who gets pregnant and has the heart and the wisdom to know that it is better for her, the baby, and the adoptive family to give the baby up rather than an abortion dr. litterally chopping its arms and legs off and sucking its brain out. If you people who disagree with giving your baby up but are ok with abortion, you really need to go to an abortion website and witness an abortion and you might change your minds! God Bless all the innocent Babies!

shereen March 25, 2009, 4:12 am

hi my husband and i have been trying to have a baby for nearly 8 years now and have been to fertility doctors and shows its my husband that is having a problem. we own a big house have a business and have a whole lot of love to give.
i don’t like the adoption agencies for i don’t believe babies are a revenue they are a gift from one person to another they are a blessing. we are looking to arrange a private adoption be a new born or a couple of years old. we would just love to raise a baby. so if you are wanting to give up your baby or child or know of anybody that wants to give up your child please email me we would be happy to hear from you and arrange for a meeting or our solicitors to arrange to talk to you or our solicitors.

brm March 27, 2009, 6:50 pm

Is ther anyone out there that wants to give awy thir baby?

nicky May 2, 2009, 12:33 pm

i got involved with a guy, who sounded nice at first but unfortulately after six months, he got me pregnant, am scared what i should do, all he is interested in is being with me, not minding how we r gona look after the new baby. I have asked him for help and he has clearly refused and even suggested i should have an abotion or give this baby away. I think am confused and dnt know what to do.

Lily May 17, 2009, 4:22 pm

Me and my Husban has reach the age of not having a child, We have a one doughter,she is very lonely without a her young sister, And we would like to have a second child and giving the baby life and better education too.
If you are young and dicide to give your child away for any reason.
Please contact me.

daisy May 30, 2009, 5:52 pm

nicky, usely this is the way it goes, guys want one thing and when you get pregnant it’s your baby.sorry, thats happened to you.think long and hard about what you want to do though,and the answer will come.if you need to chat jayanddaisy@hotmail.com bye

Ashley June 8, 2009, 11:18 pm

Hi Nicky i noticed your post and the same thing happened to my friend .. now she has a baby thats driving her crazy and she wants to pull her hair out and i was the one who was looking after the baby all the time ~ PLEASE dont get an abortion … If you are looking for someone to take you baby i would love to.
Im not able to have a baby and i fell inlove with my friends but now that i raised her baby for 8 months and she thinks she can handle it now i get screw out of the deal 🙁
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE contact me!!

Sarah and Hubby August 20, 2009, 2:41 am

Hi. We are a young married couple living in the beautiful peach state. We have been trying to conceive for years, but, due to my having PCOS, it has not been possible. We have looked into adoption, but the costs are way to high and we cannot afford it. If anyone out there is looking for a loving, warm home for their child, please dont hesistate to contact me. I love children, and I especially love infants. We are a very competent and stable couple with hearts full of love to give to a boy or girl out there. I cry every day thinking that I will never have to chance to fill the empty crib in my home. I dont want this to be a sappy story, but I am pleading to you to consider us. Email me please, at hisboo911@yahoo.com

kelly January 18, 2010, 7:10 pm

Hi my husband and I have been trying for 4 yrs. now to get pregnant it happened 2 yrs ago but I miscarried. We are desperate to have a baby is their anyone out there who knows of someone that doesnt want their un born child? we cant afford adoption fees so we’re hoping someone wants to give the baby away. Our home is so quit and we both want to fill it with children. We have so much love to give. Can anyone help us? Kelly

lori February 13, 2010, 8:05 am

my husband an i have 4 beautiful adult kids, 5 grandsons and lots more love to give.we are not rich people when it comes to money, but our riches is all the love in our family! our kids have grown up and have their own family now.we would love to help a young girl by giving her child a good home!we would love to have a little girl,newborn if possible,we already have a name picked for her.if anyone can help us our prayers would be answered. thank you and god bless!

veronica March 5, 2010, 1:25 pm

hello i just found this web site and wow..if i would have found it along time ago..i am a 36 year old woman married to a wonderful man name stevn.. we have been try for years to have a baby.. but no success.. i had a tubal pregnancy when i was 21 and lost my right tube and now it is very difficult for me to conceive..we own our home we have 2 dogs and we live in a wonderful community in maine..it is a wonderful place to raise children..we have tryed adopting but wow i cant beleive how expensive it is to adopt a baby in our own country….i work for a non profit organization and my husband works on a farm we make decent money and we have a huge house that is empty and would love to fill it up.. so if you are reading this please concider my husband and i. we would be great parents to the baby you are caring.

teresa May 1, 2010, 4:22 pm

want a baby but can not have one and adopting is to much money my husband and i just want a heathy baby will provid him or her with a loving home and megon if u are for real u can call us at my e-mail n*********@yahoo.com

Dave Walls May 3, 2010, 5:57 pm

It’s the Maury thread, ver. 2.0!

James May 5, 2010, 3:03 am

I am a single man living in Alabama and have been tring to find a young person that is wanting to give her baby up. About a year ago a girl was willing to give me custody of her baby when it was born but she got messed up on drugs and she disappeared. Now the baby is state custody and they are not willing to give the baby to me. I am just heart broken. If there is a young lady wanting to give up her baby please in the name of the lord please get in touch with me.I have the most love in the world to give to a b*****@yahoo.com

Paul July 6, 2010, 7:57 pm

Hey folks…

We’re going to close down comments on this Ping altogether. As alluded by Dave’s comment from May, lots and lots of people are mistaking this Ping for something it’s not.

If you’re interested in adoption, please check out:

http://www.adoption.org/

Thanks.

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